A Feng Shui baby bedroom
I often talk to you about the bedroom, because in feng shui, this room is extremely important. In my article, A feng shui bedroom for whom, I talked about the subtle differences that can occur in the layout and decoration depending on the age of the sleeper: babies, children, teenagers, adults, girls, boys… Today I wanted to focus on the bedroom of our little treasures.
When a newborn baby joins the family, we embark on an adventure full of joy, discovery and challenges. As parents, our priority is to create a safe and healthy environment for our baby. We want the best for him, and that includes the space where he will sleep, play and grow. This is where designing a Feng Shui nursery comes into its own.
In the harmonious world of Feng Shui, a young child’s bedroom becomes a sanctuary of tranquillity and positivity. A Feng Shui baby room is more than just a place for your child to rest; it’s a room where the Chi flows freely, promoting restful sleep and healthy development for your little angel. With my tips for designing and decorating the room, you’ll be able to create the ideal environment for your little one, a place that promotes well-being and growth.
What is Feng Shui?
Feng Shui is an ancient art with its roots in ancient China. It is a philosophy that emphasises balance and harmony in our spaces. In practical terms, Feng Shui involves organising and decorating our interiors to facilitate the circulation of energy, or ‘Chi’. It is considered to be the vital breath that nourishes our well-being and health.
This art is based on the idea that our environment has a direct impact on our life and well-being. It is particularly relevant to our children’s spaces, including baby’s rooms. You may not know it, but children are particularly sensitive to the subtle. The choice of room location, the orientation of furniture (particularly beds and desks), decoration and even the colours used can all influence the way chi circulates. By designing a Feng Shui baby room, you create a space where positive flow moves freely, encouraging peaceful naps and harmonious development.
Feng Shui is not just about the visual aspect of space. It also takes into account invisible factors such as the orientation of the room in relation to the cardinal points, the flow of air and the vibrations emanating from objects. For example, the orientation of a new-born baby’s bed is a crucial element in the application of Feng Shui principles (as we shall see, the number Kua, or birth number, gives the most favourable direction).
By incorporating these rules into the design of your child’s bedroom, you can offer him or her a healthy, balanced environment in which to flourish.
Why use Feng Shui for your baby's bedroom?
The first years of a little man’s life are a period of incredible growth and development. A child’s body is constantly ‘under construction’ and their brain absorbs information at a fascinating rate. Quality sleep is therefore essential for their physical and cognitive development. This is where the importance of a Feng Shui baby room comes in.
During the first months and years of life, sleeping is a child’s main activity. It’s much more than just a moment of rest. Scientific research has shown that sleep plays an essential role in the physical and cognitive development of babies.
From a physical point of view, it promotes growth. In fact, it is during rest that the growth hormone is released the most. This helps babies to grow and strengthen their immune systems. In addition, good quality sleep helps regulate the metabolism, which is important for preventing weight problems later in life.
In cognitive terms, sleep plays a crucial role in brain development. During sleep, the child’s brain works to consolidate the day’s learning, form new neuronal connections and process past experiences. Good sleep therefore contributes to memory, learning, problem-solving and creativity.
In short, a good night’s sleep is an essential part of a baby’s healthy development. That’s why it’s so important to create a soothing environment conducive to restful sleep, such as a Feng Shui nursery.
A Feng Shui nursery is designed to encourage peaceful sleep by minimising distractions and optimising the flow of positive energy. The location of the bed, the orientation of the furniture, the decoration of the walls – all these elements can influence the quality of your little one’s sleep.
But a baby’s bedroom isn’t just for napping or sleeping. It’s also a place for stimulation and discovery. Children explore their world mainly through play, and the bedroom is often the place where they spend a large part of their waking hours. A well-organised space, with optimised storage for toys, can stimulate their curiosity and encourage learning.
In this way, the Feng Shui design of a baby’s bedroom can create an environment that is both relaxing and stimulating, balancing Yin (calm and receptive) and Yang (active and stimulating).
How to incorporate Feng Shui into your baby's bedroom
The location of your baby’s room in the house can influence the Chi that circulates in the room. According to the Feng Shui schools of thought, it’s best to choose a room that’s away from noisy, busy areas of the house to promote peaceful sleep. What’s more, a baby’s bedroom should not share a wall with a bathroom or laundry room, as the walls of these rooms contain pipes, a disruptive element. Finally, a nice window in the room lets in natural light, which is essential for good Feng Shui.
I’m giving you some general recommendations here. But as you know, if you place the Bagua on the house plan and refer to the Ba Zhai school, one of the sectors of the house will be the most favourable in terms of location (the one linked to its harmony). This sector is determined by calculating the Kua or Min Gua number, derived from the year of birth. As well as location, this number also indicates the best direction to face when sleeping.
The orientation and placement of furniture in a baby’s room are crucial to good Feng Shui. The bed, for example, should be positioned so that the child can see the door from the bed, but not directly in front of it. This promotes a feeling of security and protection, just as it does for adults. It’s a common misconception that babies are too small to “realise”. But no, on the contrary! Their perception of Chi is innate.
It’s also best to avoid placing the bed under a window or in the window-door flow. To get the best out of the bedroom, it’s best to place the bed against the wall and not right in the middle (as in the first photo below). And, as we’ve seen, the bed should also be positioned so that its head receives the best possible energy.
Colours also have a major impact on the vibrancy of a room. For a baby’s bedroom, soft, soothing colours are preferable to promote peaceful sleep. Shades of blue, green, pink and beige are all good choices. Avoid colours that are too bright or stimulating, which can disturb a child’s sleep. In all cases, respect the colours of the elements that nourish the area.
As for design elements, opt for simple, soothing patterns rather than overly complex or stimulating designs.
Of course, Feng Shui is full of common sense and stresses the importance of cleanliness and order. A messy or dirty room can block the flow of positive energy. Make sure your baby’s room is always clean and tidy. Avoid clutter and keep unused items out of sight. It’s also a good idea to give the room a regular deep clean to remove shavings such as dust. Vacuum the mattress regularly.
Finally, keep the space under the bed clear – it’s important for the circulation of the vital flow and must remain free and open.
Specific Feng Shui advice for your baby's bedroom
According to Feng Shui, the universe is made up of five fundamental elements: Earth, Metal, Water, Wood and Fire. Each of these elements represents a particular energy and can influence the atmosphere in your baby’s bedroom. A good balance between these elements is essential for a harmonious and balanced Feng Shui baby room. Each element should therefore be integrated into the room in one way or another, with one exception: do not use the element that destroys the one in the sector (according to Bagua).
For example, in the North, this is the Water element, and Earth should not be used. In the West, metal doesn’t want Fire.
How do you incorporate each element into your baby’s bedroom?
Earth: This element represents stability and protection. You can incorporate it by choosing earthy colours for the decoration, such as orange, terra cotta or soft yellow. Ceramic objects or natural stones can also symbolise the Earth element.
Metal: Symbolises clarity and precision. Metal furniture or accessories, such as a lamp or shelves, can represent this element. The colours associated with the Metal element are white, grey and other metallic colours such as gold and silver.
Water: represents communication and inspiration. You can incorporate this element with images or objects representing water, or by using blue and black colours. However, avoid real water sources, such as fountains or aquariums, as they can be too stimulating for the room.
Wood: symbolises growth and expansion. Interior plants, images of forests or wooden furniture can represent this element. The colours associated with Wood are green, beige and brown.
Fire: represents passion and energy. This element can be represented by the use of red, pink or purple colours, or by objects in the shape of a triangle. However, the Fire element should be used sparingly in a baby’s room to avoid excessive energy.
Although Feng Shui encourages the incorporation of different elements and objects, there are also objects to be avoided in a baby’s bedroom. Mirrors, for example, are considered disruptive to sleep and are generally not recommended. Similarly, electronic devices can disrupt the energy in the room and should be avoided if possible.
Finally, avoid sharp objects or objects with sharp edges, as they can create what is known as “Sha Chi”, which are sources of negative energy. Choose soft, rounded objects for your baby’s bedroom.
As well as the objects mentioned above, you should also take care when choosing pictures or graphics for your baby’s bedroom. Violent, frightening or overly complex images can disrupt the energy of the room and potentially frighten little ones. We recommend choosing simple, soothing and positive images.
For example, avoid depictions of wild animals that might seem threatening to a young child. Similarly, images depicting stressful or negative situations, such as a storm or battle, are not ideal for baby’s bedroom.
Instead, choose images of nature, soft and friendly animals such as rabbits or birds, or happy and positive representations. Scenes of peaceful nature, such as a flower garden, a forest or a starry sky, can also help to create a serene and positive atmosphere for your little angel.
Remember, the aim is to create an environment that promotes your child’s well-being and healthy development. Every detail counts when it comes to Feng Shui optimisation of your baby’s room.
To conclude
In conclusion, designing a Feng Shui nursery may seem like a complex task, but by following the basic principles and paying attention to a few essential details, you can create a harmonious and positive environment for your child.
Remember that Feng Shui is based on the balance and integration of the five elements: Earth, Metal, Water, Wood and Fire. The location of the room, the orientation of the bed, the choice of colours and design, as well as cleanliness and order, are all key aspects to consider when designing your baby’s room.
What’s more, the choice of objects, images and patterns should also be made with care to avoid any sources of negative energy. Finally, don’t forget that the ultimate aim is to encourage your baby to rest peacefully and to provide a space that is conducive to his or her awakening and development.
I urge you to try incorporating Feng Shui into your baby’s room. You may be surprised by the positive impact it can have on your child’s well-being and sleep.
And since it takes a couple to make babies, I also encourage you to read my article on a feng shui couple’s bedroom 😉
If you’d like some personalised advice on arranging your baby’s bedroom according to the principles of Feng Shui, don’t hesitate to contact me for an expert appraisal. I will be delighted to help you.
